I am a teenager. My problem is that my grandma always gives false information about me to my dad, and he believe her because she is his mom, and scolds me. I want to ignore what she says, but I end up crying all night. I do well in academics, but I’m worried this might affect my studies. What do I do?
It would really hurt when someone in your family speaks about you this way. But it would be helpful if you could look at it more rationally and analyse why this happens. Find out if you are in anyway contributing to the comments gaps, etc. have an open conversation with your grandma, and see if you can look at it from her perspective. Many a time, due to lack of communication, we are misunderstood. See if you can make changes if her concerns are genuine. Also, crying may help us let out our feelings, but it may not be a solution to our problems. It would help if you speak up for yourself or seek from someone you trust. An open conversation with your father too maybe helpful. State the facts to him and stay calm. Your academics are very important and you should not lose your focus.
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