Ever since childhood, I used to be a very shy and reserved kid. But being just a kid, people hardly judged me and I was lucky that way. As I grew up, I became a bit more confident about myself but nevertheless I continued to be a quiet girl who hardly spoke. It’s not that I don’t want to speak my mind out, just that I lack self-confidence. Today, when I meet someone new, they believe I am arrogant. I may seem unapproachable but in reality, I am one of the friendliest persons around. How can I help myself?
I do believe that you are one of the friendliest persons around, but the problem is that you do not have the courage to show your good qualities and friendly nature to the people around you. You are well aware that this happens because you lack self confidence. Remember that God gives every one of his children many talents and beautiful qualities for a happy life. Look into yourself and, day by day, write on a paper all the good qualities that you discover in e.g., a friendly and loving nature, a kind and compassionate heart, a hard-working nature, etc. Share what you have written with some of your teachers or family members who know you well and they may help you discover your other beautiful hidden qualities. Trust in God; He has created you with love and will never fail you.
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