My friends like to dare each other. But I never do any of them because I am afraid it would create a bad impression about me

I am in Class VII. My friends like to dare each other. But I never do any of them because I am afraid it would create a bad impression about me. My friends called me a spoilsport and have stopped talking to me. What should I do? Please help me.

It needs a lot of effort to understand why you do not want to do what your friends can have differences in their viewpoints and you need to learn to accept the boundaries. Rather than looking at it as right or wrong, it would be helpful to look into what makes you comfortable. You cannot do everything, but at the same time, it is not okay to be very rigid in your ideas if it is not a sin to do something. You can make a choice based on the consequences of an action. It is very important that you convey your “no” politely without hurting the feelings of others.

 

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